Studies show that people who are naturally slim eat a similar number of calories day in and day out. They don’t go off the wagon for a vacation or eat a wildly high number of calories for a holiday. They simply have a caloric standard they tend to maintain. I am not inherently one of these people and although I am trying hard, it’s not effortless.

 

Luckily I don’t look my age

I turned fifty four last week. There was a time in my life where I would have cried all day (cough cough forty nine) but given that my beautiful mother did not have opportunity to grow old, I feel blessed with each year I live beyond her exit. Birthdays are happy happy happy!

Fried Shrimp, Whale Fries & Birthday Cake?

Any excuse for a ribeye

When considering what I wanted to do for my birthday, all my ideas were food related. My husband asked me to choose a birthday restaurant and after debating my choices I realized that Special Occasion Eating sort of exemplifies our ‘problem’. Birthdays, vacation, long weekend, you deserve a splurge!

Diner or Dive?

I chose an early Sunday beachside dinner at a great little local seafood dive that was crowded before Guy Fieri made it worse. (Thanks bud!) My favorite food is shrimp – a perfect bariatric food – moist, great texture and super low in calories. That is unless dipped, deep fried and served on top of an enormous basket of homemade chips called Whale Fries! I found myself thinking about ordering this ‘just this one time’ and how good it would be.

Predisposed for cake

I’ve lived with bariatric surgery for fifteen years. What is wrong with my hard wiring that I wanted to eat something fattening and over the top because I had a birthday pass? Do slim people think that way? We go to this place every weekend and without even thinking I have steamed rockshrimp or raw oysters. My inner fat girl was working hard to give us an excuse for some bad eating even after fighting an entire year to lose fifty five pounds of regain!

Happiness in a potato

I came to my senses and by the time we got to bar the very idea of splurge eating was making me sick. Would eating fried shrimp and chips have made me so much happier that it would have been worth it? No. Truth is, it would have made me sad. It’s just food and even good choices taste great!

They say it’s your birthday

I ordered a Bloody Mary and shrimp, heavy on the Old Bay. I had a nice birthday sitting next to someone I love (who ordered Whale Fries!) We laughed and had a great afternoon… no fanfare or singing or flaming waiters carrying a dessert. Later on at home there was a tiny sugar free cheesecake I had baked for us to share.

It helps to remember that we can have anything we want – but it takes a lot of years for it to be our choice and not a compulsion or obsession. Disaster averted. 

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8 thoughts on “Fried Shrimp, Whale Fries & Birthday Cake?

  1. Peg mccarthy says:

    That was a perfect article. I will be celebrating my 70th and my family is having a party for me. All they talk about is what kind of food to make for the party for 40 people. All I think about is how much I can’t eat and to keep the fat and calories down. I need to lose another 100 lbs so this is hard. Loved the reminder.

  2. Marianne says:

    Thank you Thank you! am still fighting and still sometimes losing the mind set of eating. I admire that you were able to think between your former self and present self. I am still having major difficulty with that.
    You inspired me to think it’s a birthday not an invitation to EAT differently.
    Again Thank You!

  3. Andrea Luraghi says:

    So good and helpful. Great article. I am working on my regain. And this was the first birthday where I didn’t indulge. Shrimp grilled wth veg. And then ate half of a cupcake. Dark chocolate salted carmel. My favorite. It was a victory in what I hope is a long line of victories.

  4. Nicole says:

    I believe we share a birthday. I’m just 6 months out, so this was my first ‘special occasion.’ It was a new experience to plan a celebration that doesn’t revolve around food. Luckily, my boyfriend is VERY supportive and it wasn’t an issue at all. I love cooking AND eating your recipes. Thank you and keep it up!

  5. Sue williams says:

    1 yr 9-15-15 63 lb loss
    Need help with keeping my motivation and trying new things. Need more communication with others that have had the same surgery..The sleeve

  6. Jackie says:

    Just had the sleeve on 9/2/15 still afraid of overeating. So skipping meals is not a good decision wondering how I’m barley eating but not losing. I have to remember to eat breakfast, noon meal,snack, Pm meals just over the protein shakes. Good Luck . Please share stories to motivate others..

  7. Denise says:

    The nutritionist class wanted us to start eating again. I new this was a disaster waiting to happen. “Add Carbs to the diet” are you kidding. After 4 months and 40 pound loss I added a few foods that were suggested. and I am not loosing and I am afraid of gaining and I am hooked on the few carb foods I added. I didn’t give up totally the protein drinks. Thank you for this site. Today I searched for support and you were here with the FACTS of Life. Exactly what my pre op diet included. and I lost weight then. I was OK with the Plan It was simple and worked.

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